Oh dear here I go kicking the hornets nest again. While I accept that sex is appealing to some "girls" I think that chatting about it on the main wall sets a very bad example to any new "girls" wanting to come out as femme. Many of us dress to show our feminine side or to feel that we can be the person we should be, even if only for a short time. I know that when I first wanted to come out as femme, if I had found out it was all about sex, I would have stayed "in the closet"