I bought these 'girly' cross strap flats, and found them too normal when compared with 'more girly footwear' such as 'heels' i bought later. Earlier, i was using 'these' girly flats only while cross dressing in private. Now, i am thinking of confidently using them everywhere in public like in malls, traveling, shopping & so on. Still feel then giry enough and therefore like walking on air when i wear them!.