I would advise anyone to try and attend one of the many monthly events that are out there, if you want to find out more go on the Tvchix site and click on 'events' in the menu on the left, then put in where you live and it will tell you whats on, Leeds First Friday is apparently the biggest event, and i know there's an event that used to be called Birmingham Belles, but its changed its name, there are quite a few out there