While I realise everyone has a different idea what being a crossdresser is all about, the definition is a person who wears clothes of the opposite gender. Clothes in the plural meaning more than one item. If you just wear knickers or just wear a bra, that is not crossdressing by definition. Now most crossdressers here are men, so why do so many think other men want to to see a hairy arse in a pair of knickers or a pair of pants that barely hides their tackle. Also male grooming, removing body/leg hair is acceptable if not desired as quite normal now and not associated with being a crossdresser.