Slipped into this makes me feel great

At 65, I've spent decades as a transvestite sissy crossdresser, keeping my feminine side tucked away like a guilty secret for most of my life. Skirts, stockings, heels, and lacy things brought me a private thrill and a soft kind of peace, but they also came with shame and isolation. Then volunteering stepped in first in drab male clothes at a local charity shop and quietly cracked the door open to something more. Over time, the idea of exploring crossdressing while volunteering became a gentle, thrilling possibility that blended my two worlds: giving back to the community while letting my sissy self breathe a little in public. Crossdressing and volunteering intersect in beautiful, sometimes nerve wracking ways. Many of us in the crossdressing community already love charity shops and thrift stores they're treasure troves for affordable feminine clothes, vintage dresses, silky blouses, and heels that fit just right without breaking the bank. Shopping there "en drab" (in male presentation) is common and relatively low-pressure; staff rarely bat an eye at a man browsing the women's section, especially if you're polite and purposeful. But taking the next step volunteering while presenting as your feminine self feels like leveling up. It turns the shop into a stage where you can practice being seen, contribute meaningfully, and feel the quiet joy of service wrapped in the fabric that makes you feel most alive. Sorting donations, steaming garments, arranging displays tasks that already feel creative and domestic become even more satisfying when you're doing them in a skirt or blouse that matches the very items on the rails. There's a special little rush when you handle a pretty dress that might have been perfect for your own collection, knowing it's going to help someone else while you get to embody your softer side in a purposeful setting. For many of us older sissies, volunteering offers a gentle way to ease into public expression without the intensity of a full "night out." Charity shops tend to attract kind, community minded people older volunteers, mums, young folks gaining experience, and all sorts in between. The environment is often forgiving and focused on the work rather than on you. Conversations flow naturally over pricing or styling, and you can let your feminine mannerisms show a bit more without forcing anything. It builds confidence the same way my early drab shifts did: through small interactions, teamwork, and the satisfaction of helping keep good clothes out of landfill while raising funds for worthy causes. Of course, it's not without its layers. Some days you might worry about being read, or about awkward questions, or simply about whether the team will accept you. Experiences vary some places are wonderfully inclusive, especially those with ties to causes or progressive areas, while others might feel more traditional. Starting small helps: perhaps a short shift, a subtle feminine touch, nail polish, a unisex but feminine top, or even volunteering at events or organizations where crossdressing is more normalized. I've heard of crossdressers volunteering at community fundraisers, helping at pride related drives, or even assisting in thrift based events where dressing up adds to the fun and visibility. The mental health side is profound. Volunteering already combats loneliness, builds purpose, teaches skills, and creates real connections benefits that feel amplified when you're expressing your authentic self. For a sissy crossdresser like me, it bridges the gap between private indulgence and public living. That hidden part of me stops feeling like a shameful secret and starts feeling like a valid contribution to the world. The social aspect eases isolation in a way therapy alone never quite could; you're valued for your helpfulness, your eye for display, your patience with customers. And yes, there's that extra layer of thrill spotting a gorgeous bargain while wearing something pretty yourself, or feeling the swish of a skirt as you move between racks. Looking back, exploring crossdressing in volunteering has been one of the most rewarding paths for many of us. It doesn't demand you "come out" dramatically; it lets you integrate gradually, at your own pace. Some stay fully en femme for shifts and find warm acceptance. Others mix presentations or keep it subtle. Either way, it fosters growth: more confidence, better social skills, a deeper sense of purpose, and often a surprising amount of quiet support from people who simply see a kind volunteer doing good work. If you're a fellow crossdresser reading this whether you're 25 or 75 consider it. Start by shopping at charity shops to build familiarity, then explore volunteering opportunities. Talk to managers openly if it feels right; many are pragmatic and welcoming when you frame it as wanting to contribute.

Dont think ill be posting here often much more, site is pretty quiet now and the verification every half an hour, slow loading times and the constant crashes just make it a hassle to come on here regularly. still check in occasionally but im on fetlife and facebook more if you want to keep in touch/chat. links are on my profile :) hope you all have a great weekend xx

Are you angry at me, Anna.89, on two of my posts, or at someone who ignores the rules and brings the site, crossdressers and trans women into disrepute and makes everyone's lives less convenient, less pleasant? If at me, may i suggest you go find a porn site that caters to you, there are plenty which aren't intended to be a *social* network for crossdressing and trans women, with much laxer rules. It looks as though you've blocked me, so my assumption is that you're only here to perve, of course.

Had a new pink Sissy dress delivered yesterday, no chance to try it, so after coffee I want to see what its like. White stockings or tights, oh the tough choicxes we girls have to make.

Heels makes Patti feel girly

Well, i seen my mom off to dialysis and i thought.. you know what?? Im not really doing shit today, im going to stay up and play some silent hill f.. so i put my makeup back on for the day, and we're off to the fucking races.. i hope you guys are having a good monday..

Dunno y it makes the men go wild lol

wow i finally made it. age verification sucks! not sure if I'll be back again. using the email option seems to be on and off. mostly not available. so going to make the most of it for now. If I disappear then its this sites fault

I'll make some hot tea too! Enjoy!

Good morning
Thought i would get this picture from last years makeup lesson as not going out at the moment till my immune system is back to normal

My third try to Dress With makeup . This time with the high heel over knee boots with lock.

Young guys sending me dick pics make me so horny! Lol.

Comes back onto this site due to an email notification and oh, several messages, a ton of notification some a little obscure (ignoring those) I see nothing has changed hahaha Reason for absence, been really ill, so to make me feel better, been shopping... More boots

I’m trying to organize my closet but I can’t get rid of anything because they all make me feel so sex and naughty!

Today's look make-up face app

Aftermath ...

My tights
I hide under my strings
Inside
My jeans
Or Suit.
You did
Not notice
The change
But
I Love,
Love not you...
Another girl
For rear date
Is hidden
In my suit.
Do you love her?
Or just the past
That's why I am leaving you...

Yes I became so
New, in tights...
Not
What you did so wish...
Forgive me
I would
Need depart
To be so lonely me
To feel my Love
Is for that girl
Who had no
Chance
No friends...

Spring
Madness
I am leaving you
In tights
No suit,
No date ...
Just top
Skirt
Scarf...
And lipstick bag
All that form
My true fate...


Sometimes Kate does a sufrage. And goes no bra in male outfit.
No lipstick
No make up
Just change in eyes reflects beatiful feeling of tights weared sans...
Back to roots...

About last night........Get to see more on my OF.

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

Silent Morning ...

Don't kiss me
I wish other love
When you
Are shy to come...
I know
Wait
And time above
Makes all heart
Bits
To Love...
Don't come
Don't kiss me
Ever try
Will kill
That
Innocence
We better
Wait
Another time
The one
That never ends

Black tie and gown charity event tonight,thought id make an effort! ...should I stay dark,so love to know your thoughts? Xx

New lingerie makes me feel like being intimate and wanting to chat, such a lot to try on

Need to get another rendezvous booked in my diary… absence makes the heart grow fonder

Wait for it !

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

Get to see me in the full without all the bitching of why we as models do this for a living.
Everyone spends more on beer then what it costs for a month on my onlyfans.

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

Hope everyone has had the chance to put on something this week that makes them feel themselves. This was my outfit for Tuesday.

Sexy heels make me feel so good! #cd #crossdresser #tgirl #trans

Hello everyone, I just thought I would say hello, I have previosly been on this site and then left it until now to look for new friends, as my profile says, ive recently turned 50 and I have friends who enjoy cross dressing, I have always liked the thought of exploring my feminine side, I enjoy wearing feminine clothing and looking for help with make up tips. Thank you in advance

Wow, my oh my what a day, I`v been in chastity for months now (Only lets out for work), my wife/******** told me to ware panties and a bra today and I was punished as normal on a Sunday morning for being a slut, but this afternoon I talked back/argued with my wife/******** so she punished me again (I`v added that picture, it`s OK if it get removed), she then chose a dress and shoes for me for the rest of the day and I was ordered to make dinner - I`m feeling very subby right now - I`m so lucky. xxx dirty michelle xxx

Lazy day, no makeup

some past pictures. trying out very pale makeup for the more gothic look

Get to see me in the full without all the bitching of why we as models do this for a living.
Everyone spends more on beer then what it costs for a month on my onlyfans.

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

I do wish xx & I make no apologies for it

Keeping it real !

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

Nothing butt the truth and nothing to hide. All real and no ai. Show who you are !

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

What is it about Emma Watson that makes her so sexually appealing to us all?

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

my favourite and newest photo. might make a vid with it.

Saturday night, mortals. Make it count x

Evening everyone so nice when you have to male it for most of the day and come home and chuck a face and outfit on with your favourite fluffy slippers and relax and be yourself for the evening, a cheeky glass of wine may make an appearance

I'm looking for someone to take my virginity and make me beg for their **** juice

About last night . . .

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth

What headphones do people use listening to music and make ?

Its Friday, It should be fun day, but need to go sort Mobile phone issue instead, what to wear under mshorts. Got to make it more fun for sure.

Because I can !

A MaleToFemale (MTF) Photographic Studio Visual.
Becoming Femme and Feminizing as my alter ego model Valentina Valentine.
Hair & Make-Up ready.
Love the skin you’re in.
Being androgynous is not a sin.
Please enjoy. Comments are always welcome.

#transfluid #femboy #mtftransition #femboycosplay #maletofemale #crossdresserslut #crossdressermodel #crossdressing #crossdresser #femboylegs #femboyheaven #transworld #justcrossdressers #transpinupgirl #Androgyny #femmeworld #pridemonth