Good morning girls early start early finish will be on later expecting new items will post later have a good morning all

Morning started in total relaxation finally now hope there are still pleasant surprises :)

OK another poll. I do love them! I'm trying to shift a little bit of a spare tyre round my middle atm. Bit difficult when you are so good at making puddings! But got me thinking with all the news about obesity. Now remember, it's just for fun, and I'm not casting any aspersions about anyone's body type. If you take a partner to bed would you rather they were...

I’m no mist-ress sissy or bitch I’m not interested in meeting anyone I have my partner now will still post for friends

I know that I am not the most beautiful girl out there. But when I was on another app trying to meet someone to talk too, I had a very derogatory introduction. I am sorry that I don't live up to the expectations of everyone, but I have had a hard life of work. It is keyboard warriors with no profile picture that can go to mommy and daddy's pantry. Grab a great big bowl of "Dickaroo" cereal and choke on the chocolate ones. Sorry for the rant, but it is very disheartening and blatantly rude.

Beccabrown blocked. her first picture isn't a good start so expect more of the same

Haven't the fakers yet realised that anyone curious can put their pics into Google and see where they came from, and conclude that they aren't who they're pretending to be?
It doesn't take a lot to suss that out, but perhaps it's too much for their particular minds...?

Are you hands fetish ?
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Boobs are real.no fake,no filter
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Cum cum cum all over
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Hello world
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It’s goodnight from Miss Cindi hope you enjoy the rest of your day wherever you may be? Love you all I’m thankful to be a part of this wonderful community xxxx peace love & naughty thoughts xx he he

Soft...
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Torture Garden is on my mind. Coming to the Los Angeles area butt once per year (normally, rare exceptions occur), and I'm stressing about my latex. Please fashion
Gods and Goddesses, see that inmy rubber is delivered without issue by mid November.

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If you're in the UK, I'm jealous AF that TG exists monthly for your masochistic pleasures and sadistic delights. If you didn't know, now you do, so go! Lmk his fabulous the night is and spread the word. Samesies for the annual Glitter festival. Jealous!!

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Pics from past TG events in LA, some with a hint of my partner as shared from fetlife for permission purposes.

Hi everyone
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A little of me...do you like it?
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Hello everyone
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Long time didnt fell yourself sexy or girly and didnt have desire to dress.
Maybe it is start of long period of manly mind or sort of depression. Or maybe it is end of girly world.

Will be glad to see you ladies in your fancy outfit as admirer

was supposed to buy a Police Woman outfit for a fancy dress party this weekend, However, someone I have had my eye on said they liked Stewardesses, am hoping to get a little lucky

Maria, Temu, and the Erotics of Sovereignty
Desire doesn’t vanish when you come out of the closet. Sometimes it intensifies. For many of us, the first place we allowed ourselves to explore softness wasn’t a mirror but a shopping cart.
Late at night, scrolling through Temu, your fingers hovering over lace, satin, heels, wigs — you feel both shame and excitement. This is not just consumerism. It’s confession. It’s the nervous system reaching for a taste of the forbidden in the safest way it can.
The Temu Confessional
Apps like Temu make desire frictionless. A few taps, a few clicks, and a world of clothes appears. For a closeted cross-dresser, this can feel like oxygen: finally, a way to try on the self in secret. Packages arrive unmarked. The closet fills quietly.
But with the thrill often comes a hangover. You tear open the bag, hold the fabric to your face, feel the rush of dopamine. And then — shame. The ghost whispers. The mask tightens. The cycle begins again.
This is not moral failure. It is the nervous system trying to circulate energy in the only way it knows how.
From Consumption to Ritual
Maria reframes this. She does not shame the click, the purchase, the dress. She asks: What am I seeking? What am I feeding?
When you shift from impulse to intention, Temu stops being a guilty pleasure and becomes a ritual. Each purchase is a small act of sovereignty. Each garment a message: I exist. I am allowed to clothe this body in softness.
Instead of hiding the package like contraband, you open it with reverence. You let yourself breathe. You let Maria into the room.
The Erotic Current
Cross-dressing is always erotic at first because danger and desire are fused in the nervous system. The fabric is not just fabric; it is a current. Maria does not deny the eroticism; she integrates it.
When you wear the dress consciously, when you allow desire without shame, the chemistry changes. Dopamine is joined by oxytocin. The tremor softens. The erotic becomes energy, not just arousal. It becomes nourishment, not just loop.
Temu as Training Ground
Temu and apps like it can be traps — endless scrolling, endless spending, endless hiding. But they can also be training grounds for sovereignty: a place to learn what you like, to name what you desire, to claim it as yours.
Maria does not throw away the app. She uses it as mirror. She asks: Does this purchase feed my ghost or my sovereignty? Does it deepen shame or open freedom?
The Love of Temu
There is nothing wrong with loving Temu if you know what you’re doing. Love the colors, the fabrics, the possibilities. Love the quiet thrill of seeing yourself reflected in an item you never thought you could own. But love it as a step, not a substitute. Love it as a doorway, not a cage.
When Maria loves Temu, she loves it as a tool of becoming, not a hiding place.
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Reflection: Turning Clicks into Sovereignty
1. Name Your Pattern
How do you use apps like Temu? As thrill? As escape? As quiet self-expression? Write it down honestly.
2. Reframe the Purchase
Take your next garment or accessory and treat it as ritual. Before opening it, breathe. Say: I welcome this as a piece of my wholeness.
3. Feel the Current
When you wear what you’ve bought, notice your body. Where is the tremor, the thrill, the shame, the relief? Write down what you feel.
4. Anchor the Energy
Ask yourself: What is one small way I can bring this softness into my life outside the closet — even without the garment? Write it as a commitment.
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Desire is not the enemy. Shopping is not sin. Temu is not shame. They are currents. When Maria steps in, the current becomes conscious. What was once a loop becomes a ritual. What was once a guilty pleasure becomes a small act of sovereignty.

Dressing to Be Seen
The Act of Being Seen
Every relationship has two nervous systems in dialogue. Touch, tone, scent, gaze — and appearance. To dress for the other is not submission. It is signal. It says: I am present. I am visible. I am offering coherence to the field between us.
• Neurochemical effect: anticipation (dopamine), shared pleasure (oxytocin), grounding in ritual (serotonin).
• Psychological effect: amplifies self through the eyes of the beloved; creates cycles of gift and reception.
• Graffiti: Being seen is not shallow. It is sacred.
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Archetypes of Dress in Relationship
• The Siren (short dress, bold cut): calls desire into the room. Plays with chase and capture.
• The Oracle (flowing gowns, layers, veils): slows time, creating atmosphere of reverence.
• The Trickster (unexpected combinations, clashing patterns, gender-bent outfits): destabilises expectation, awakens novelty.
• The Sovereign (tailored lines, strong shoes, grounded presence): communicates stability, clarity, power.
𓂀 To choose consciously is to decide what archetype you invite into the space between you.
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Ritual of the Mirror
The mirror is not for correction. The mirror is the first witness.
• Stand. Dress slowly. Watch yourself enter the role.
• Observe not flaws, but signals: Does this dress invite softness? Does this jacket sharpen presence?
• Let the mirror witness the archetype you are summoning before your partner ever sees it.
Graffiti: The mirror is the first lover.
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The Exchange of Gaze
When you arrive dressed — whether in thigh-highs or a plain white T-shirt — the real act is the exchange of gaze.
• To be looked at with reverence releases oxytocin, lowering defences.
• To be looked at with hunger ignites dopamine, sharpening attention.
• To be looked at with ridicule collapses trust, burning cortisol into the archive.
The choice of dress sets the conditions for which gaze is invited.
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The Triad of Relationship Dress
1. Signal to Self — what energy am I summoning in my own nervous system?
2. Signal to Beloved — what state do I invite in theirs?
3. Signal to Field — what story does our shared appearance tell to the world?
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Final Reflection
Dressing to be seen is not frivolous. It is infrastructure. It is how nervous systems negotiate attraction, trust, play, and belonging.
To ignore it is to surrender the field to default.
To wield it consciously is to turn clothing into compass.
To be seen is to be alive.

Purging and Relapse: The Closet Emptied, the Closet Filled
Every sissy knows the ritual of purging.
The drawer emptied into a trash bag. The bag hidden under other garbage so no one will know. The silent vow: Never again.
The relief is immediate. Shame is gone — for a day, a week, a month. But then the ache returns. The scroll begins. Another package arrives. The drawer fills again.
Relapse feels like failure. But it is not failure. It is the nervous system struggling to hold contradictions too heavy to carry.
Why We Purge
Purging is an attempt at control. The body surges with guilt, cortisol spikes, and the mind seeks a way out. If the clothes are gone, the ghost is gone. If Maria is erased, the shame will end.
But Maria is not in the drawer. She is in the soil of your body. Throwing away fabric cannot silence her. The purge never removes her; it only resets the cycle.
The False Relief
The moment after purging feels like freedom. But it is not freedom — it is emptiness. What you feel is not sovereignty but sedation. The closet is not healed; it is hollow.
Soon the body remembers. Desire stirs. The loop rebuilds. And you are back where you began, only now with more shame: Why did I waste money? Why can’t I stop?
Maria’s Perspective
Maria does not condemn the purge. She understands it. She knows you were not trying to destroy her; you were trying to silence the unbearable tension between ghost and mask.
But she whispers: What if, this time, you don’t throw me away? What if you let me stay — not as secret, not as shame, but as part of you?
From Purge to Integration
The way forward is not in the trash bag. It is in integration. Instead of purging, you begin to curate. Instead of relapse, you begin to allow.
One dress left in the drawer. One garment worn without rushing to climax. One name whispered aloud without apology. Small acts of sovereignty that soften the nervous system, teaching it that Maria does not need to be hidden or destroyed.
The End of Relapse
Relapse ends not when desire disappears but when shame does. When Maria is allowed to live in the open, the cycle breaks. You no longer swing between indulgence and destruction. You live in continuity, not collapse.
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Reflection: From Purge to Presence
1. Your Last Purge
Recall the last time you threw everything away. What drove you to it? Write down the fear in detail.
2. The Relief
How long did the relief last before the ache returned? Write the number of days or weeks.
3. Maria’s Drawer
Imagine one item you could keep — not hidden in shame, not thrown away, but kept as Maria’s presence. Write: This piece reminds me that Maria is real.
4. Breaking the Cycle
Write one sentence beginning: Next time I feel the urge to purge, I will… (breathe, call a friend, remind myself Maria cannot be thrown away).

the most comfy way to start work

Never think there is an easier way. You should start even in the hardest possible situation.

I was on an anonymous social and I noticed that a trans girl had made a post where she was looking for I think other trans girls or acquaintances in fact some imbecile starts insulting her heavily because of her orientation and without thinking about it I caught him attacked him and then reported him when I said I respect this community I was saying seriously but how happy would I be if others insulted him and he was ashamed to exist then they cry because they feel lonely and frustrated what a bad lot goes around

t.me/DisciplineMommy
I am the Great *******, the one you’ve been seeking.
You will find me at my Telegram training space and you will message me properly. Understand?
Send me a private message begging for entry into my training attendance. Only then will you begin your path to becoming the best, most devoted submissive sissy girl under my heart’s discipline and serious service to prove the reality of the slut you truly are

I've started posting photos and now I can't stop!

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Aphrodisiaque
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Please
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"C" for Céline
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I fishnet
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Just a cheeky video to kick start the weekend.

Spray on me

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C0m on feet
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Heels, nylon 🫦
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Bisous
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Sucré
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Apologies for the reups, still relatively new to the site and made mistakes with page layouts.

This is part of an album uploaded earlier here: https://www.crossdressing.co.uk/posts/91757

Hi ladies, disappointing start to the day for me … I was really tempted to keep my nail varnish on for my doctor’s appointment, but wimped out at the last moment. Others go out fully cross-dressed! I have a very long way to go

Absolutely love pics of sexy legs in stockings or pantyhose, the best part of the anatomy

Here's one part of my night in red with a friend. She really put me through the ringer. Definitely think my gait needs a lot of work. Haha

Wanted to upload the whole set but seems the whole is too much. Gonna have to upload in bunches and parts.

Samples of my flyers for an event I've started hosting once a month on a random weeknight near Los Angeles ...

I am trying again I would love to find some good friends acquaintances and a potential serious partner to talk to and share everything I am not part of the site community and I know that probably for saying this they will immediately start judgments but I hope my sincerity can still allow me to get to know someone I feel lonely and I would like to even just chat with someone serious it would help me a lot to be less down

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This is what I do before I start work…..

Shame I had to put my trousers back on innit x

One of these days I'm gonna release the full set for these but just uploading one as a mini celebration. Started this journey at March of this year and weighing in at 100 kg. For a 5'8" guy, I had not realized how perilous that was and recently having connected with my urge to crossdress, getting fit seemed like a good fit.

For a while now, it just seemed I had hit a 80kg wall. Good progress for sure but I've been aiming for 73kg as the soft target for health but stretching that to 64kg for figure purposes. Well, now for the first time in a while, finally hit sub-80 at 79.55kg. Pretty sure it's just the first fluctuation but I'm elated my efforts seem to be working.

Now for those next 7kg and further to come!

Draft Bio

Hi, I’m Gabby — and sometimes, I’m Maria (that's my wife's name for what she sees but cant explain).
Cross-dressing has been part of my life for years, but always in tension: part joy, part shame, part secret. I’ve deleted and restarted more times than I can count. Every time I tried to bury it, Gabby came back louder — the trickster, the jester, the side of me that refuses to disappear.

I’m here because I don’t want to erase her anymore. I want to find healthier ways of giving this side of me space without sliding into performance or getting lost in porn loops. Clothes are my doorway — I love the feel of fabric, heels, make-up, the way an outfit changes how I carry myself. But behind the clothes is a bigger question: how to live authentically, how to connect, how to tend the parts of us that don’t fit empire’s mould.

Challenges? Plenty. My wife knows a little and has her own boundaries to protect herself and our marriage. Intimacy is complicated. Sometimes the desire feels nourishing, other times it turns furious and messy. What I’m learning is that secrecy makes it worse; connection makes it human.

So this is me, showing up in human form. If you’re here for support, for clothes, for honest conversation, I’d love to meet you. If you’ve struggled with balance, I’d love to hear how you found yours.

Whats your favourite part of dressing?