Why is it so hard to find a real Dom, who isn't a bully or a thug, who understands consent and that it's a 2-way interaction and both have needs AND boundaries - who does't live 2 hours away and work all over the place 😥 Would help if he's tall (to nestle my head on his chest), scrummy, open and honest, too... Tattoos, piercings, beard, all good 😛