Also tomorrow I have a bit of a road trip visiting 3 secure sites I’ve not visited before and meeting quite important people, there will undoubtedly be security checks to access the sites, what do I do? My heart says go dressed en femme but my head says “are you mad” my company obviously cannot tell me how I should attend but obviously I know what their preference would be, I leave it up to you, M for male F for female, will do whatever you decide as I am completely torn