Looking through the posts here, I have come to realise that my idea of being a CD is different than most on here. I dress because I enjoy looking like a woman, not for any sexual arousal or to entice others to want physical (sexual ) contact. I dress to please me, not others. I try to look as feminine as is possible which ,to me, means tucking well when dressed up, I don't want to look like a man dressed in female clothes, and shaving as much body hair as I can. I am not a full time CD and enjoy both roles of my life. I am lucky enough to have a slim body, so can look good in lingerie, but find that posting pictures of me in lingerie elicits more sexual comments than admiration for the actual lingerie. I am not a prude and have had BI experiences, but that is private and should only be chatted about in PRIVATE NOT on the main wall here. I love to see nice clothes and underwear but NOT when it is just barely covering your male bits or hairy ass. If you wouldn't show it for real in public don't show me on the main wall.