Oh, ive not found anyone local* that i've taken to yet, but he's exactly my cup of tea - tall, distinguished, VERY knowlegeable and considerate - and we do it because we're into each other, only costs are a couple's ticket to the dungeon nights over a weekend, petrol, and maybe a hotel for after(care) - i like to be out and seen in the dungeon, a big bonus when "straight" guys are watching thinking i'm a genetic girl (i'm quite ickle so an easy mistake to make when they can't see my face, either cos i'm face-down over a bench getting my bum reddened, tied to a Saltire, or being led through the club in a muzzle-mask on the end of a leash), always had exhibitionist tendencies!
*any takers who'd like to accompany me to the dungeon? Hellfire Club is my nearest - MUST be 6'+ so i can nuzzle into a hairy chest and a sensitive Dom Daddy with a firm hand who understands consent and expects it to apply in both directions, even with brats...