Evening all, and happy new year
So not been on here in ages, have had a lot going on, so I came out to my wife as transgender, we spent a month or so trying to se if we could still make things work but understandably it was too much for her, so about 5 weeks ago we separated, our kids now know about me as do my parents who I’ve moved in with for the time being, I’m not living full time as summer out of respect for my children as I don’t want things to get awkward for them,
I’ve been seeing a counsellor for 3 months to help me come to terms with my identity, I have also spoken to my GP who has referred me to the gender clinic and I am waiting for an appointment with them,
It’s been a hard few months and as me and my wife work through separation and eventually divorce it’s not going to get easier for a while but I’m glad I’ve done it, I’m glad I can finally start on the path to being the me I’ve always wanted to be,
So my message to you all is be true to yourself, do whatever it takes to make you happy, you may hurt people along the way but if they love you they will understand and come around eventually,
Love you all, summer xxx
P.s. little Christmas party pic as haven’t really taken any in a while
Evening all, and happy new year
So not been on here in ages, have had a lot going on, so I came out to my wife as transgender, we spent a month or so trying to se if we could still make things work but understandably it was too much for her, so about 5 weeks ago we separated, our kids now know about me as do my parents who I’ve moved in with for the time being, I’m not living full time as summer out of respect for my children as I don’t want things to get awkward for them,
I’ve been seeing a counsellor for 3 months to help me come to terms with my identity, I have also spoken to my GP who has referred me to the gender clinic and I am waiting for an appointment with them,
It’s been a hard few months and as me and my wife work through separation and eventually divorce it’s not going to get easier for a while but I’m glad I’ve done it, I’m glad I can finally start on the path to being the me I’ve always wanted to be,
So my message to you all is be true to yourself, do whatever it takes to make you happy, you may hurt people along the way but if they love you they will understand and come around eventually,
Love you all, summer xxx
P.s. little Christmas party pic as haven’t really taken any in a while