NOTE: Blank profiles don't get befriended, however many friend requests they send!
FILL IN YOUR PROFILE and add a pic or two (no, not of that, nor of you holding a dead/dying fish!), otherwise how would i know whether i want to chat with you and be your friend?

OK, back to "about me" (and yes, it's probably the longest on here, test of your fortitude and reading speed...)
I'm still mostly closeted (and unconvincing, sadly) but have recently started attending LGBTQ+ events as Jacqui, I've returned to cross-dressing after plenty of, too many, years, was quite petite and androgynous in my teens / early 20s (used to get my bum pinched out at gigs and parties, girlfriend and I used to get to go home and have fun with the pinchers if we liked the look and attitude!) - and later very much into (with my then wife) the party/swinging scene - but then kids came along! Until a couple of years ago I was single dad-and-mum to a pair of youngsters, now off making their own lives :)

My "public" life is very much in masculine fields / environments (engineering, motorbikes, machinery) and dressing lets me relax and let another me out of the box, a much softer, perhaps sub? person who likes to feel pretty and sexy (even if I don't look it!) and up for fun times with like-minded people, not only 1 to 1?

Preferences, intimate details (eek) - I'm definitely bottom when in girl mode, can really enjoy being sub, I'm "average" and cut, have a slight preference for cut but cleanliness is more important! Safety's important to me too, so wrap it for anything "invasive"!

I'm 5'6, a bit "sturdy", grey eyes and hair, , working on my figure (slowly, knees are complaining... Stomach's rumbling...) and my wardrobe, particulary heels - can't do rough ground or stairs in anything over 4" though!, smoke occasionally, drink socially, love music, particularly live, in *almost* all genres (they left an imprtant "C" off Rap, "Drill" fails to please compared to the dentist's one, f'rinstance), play guitar badly and sing worse, damn good fishytarian cook, read and watch an excessive amount of SciFi, explore science and tech when time permits, and work hard in a very techy role that takes a lot of my time in the week (but planning to get back to 4-day working, even if it means longer days - I miss my long weekends!)

Note: I do smoke, but the world's thinnest roll-ups, and not many in a day - I know some are quite against meets with smokers.

Anyway, that's me, would be good to meet interesting people nearby so get in touch if you'd care to!

Jacqui x

P.S. try to be a bit more inspiring than "Hi sexy", "Wanna meet" etc., please, If you want a response to a message!

10/5/23 - Just did the test to see...
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Voyeur
97% Exhibitionist
94% Rope bunny
93% Switch
90% Brat
89% Experimentalist
84% Non-monogamist
81% Ageplayer
78% Submissive
78% Degradee
I think that's surprisingly accurate!

13/5/23 Another note! I'm wearing a breastplate in some of my pics, and wear it on cam, so please recognise that the twins aren't real, however impressive they are! I do wear for meets, and hope that they'll be appreciated and enjoyed like the biological girls' E cups would be!

Xmas 2023 - and here's to a bright and shiny new year!

Decided to lose the facial hair as a experiment and... Dammit! I look like an elderly "admirer" when I'm in boy's clothes! Don't recognise myself, it's been 30-odd years (some of them very odd) since I saw my chin - eek! Daughter asked "Who is this old woman?" I may keep the face smooth like elsewhere, if I can get my skin to calm down after 30 years hiding its light beneath a bush!

I'm going to have to VERY intensely study the contouring/feminising makeup tutorials on YouBoob.... And maybe have a nip'n'tuck for the jowls....

New Year's resolution is to visit local clubs (and if they have a dungeon... Ooh) and attend local munches (what lovely people!) to meet the local kink community, and to be Jacqui when and where I can, and not just "on the pull"!

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March 2024 - spring is springing!

Well, the year got off to a good start, been clubbing a few times, once with a rather nice Dom when i got a real boost to my confidence (and a very red and glowing bum - lovely feeling) - being mistaken for a biological femme can do that! The endorphins already had me floating, had to be dragged like a balloon on a string when we left :D
Dancing to Techno for hours in heels did leave my ickle feet complaining for a weekend, but worth it!

Been out watching bands as myself, and despite the machinations of writers of crappy childrens fiction and religious nutters, real acceptance and no hostility among the crowds or in the Ladies, just smiles :) Young lad staring at the twins, when he noticed i'd noticed "Your... necklace is beautiful!" - yeah, right....

Going to venture forth to Touch for an Adventure on 20/3, see whether its somewhere i want to frequent frequently :)

Following on from the Poverty Diet with OMAD Keto, plus more exercises to do as advised by a nice Personal Trainer i chatted with for an hour online, explained i'd hit a plateau on the losing-weight/gaining-waist, the extra exercises are... hard work! I think he's hoping to "check out" the leather jeans with a cane once i fit in them...

November 2024 - ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

Ex-landlord sold out from under me, so bunking with family and house-hunting - looking further west so a change of scene and gym coming up soon i hope, AND a return to "entertaining" guests from a temporary hiatus (no, not a hernia!) - better dig out the big fluffy towels, massage oil, soft lights and smoochy music, already know where the paddle, canes, cuffs and floggers are... Any good venues near Winchester? Southampton must have some?

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